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Coaching men to find a sense of purpose, improve their relationships, and live life to the fullest.
What clients say
“I have clinically diagnosed OCD that I've had my whole life. I had one call with Thomas, where I was pretty much at a breaking point and felt completely lost and confused. He then introduced me to the idea of surrender. But mostly, I've freed myself from this debilitating condition”
Hudson Greening
SelfLoveArmy member
“I spent 6 hours in a jail cell with a one inch padded foamy and a blanket, and the clothes off my back. And I felt totally at peace. And you know why? Because I had a 10min conversation with Thomas Whigham a few days before.”
Daniel Sanchez
SelfLoveArmy member
“I have a medical issue that has been getting worse for years. I had resigned to hopelessness a long time ago. Thomas said he would do what he could to heal me. The world is less painful and I have gone from daily thoughts of suicide to having hope.”
Ahren Groesch
SelfLoveArmy member
“It seems a little silly to write about the changes in my life since I've been working with Thomas... Because I have effortlessly about doubled my income and "manifested" a deeply loving relationship with a gorgeous man who just gets me”
Viveka Jagadeesan
SelfLoveArmy member
“I had a conversation with my mom that I’ve been putting off my whole life: sharing that I wanted to start saying “I love you” to her and was nervous that she’d be uncomfortable with it. And since then, my relationship with my mom AND my entire family has completely shifted.”
Jaemin Yi
SelfLoveArmy member
“Thomas recommended working very hard and being loving and everything like that. And then he said to ask for a raise. Well today they gave me a raise without me having to ask and said it’ll keep going up as I work harder and harder and harder or as long as I keep it up.”
Luke Shemroske
SelfLoveArmy member
“Thomas Whigham cracked me open in 2 calls and i'm literally bursting with love and gratitude. We went straight to healing my deepest trauma which was a painful relationship with my father and some unresolved resentment towards him. After our call I fully forgave him.”
Daniel Jacob
SelfLoveArmy member
“I'm no longer settling for anything less than what I truly want in ANY area of my life- because Thomas explains what is happening for me in such a profound way, and then holds me to my desires with actions that create massive CHANGE. I finally feel like I'm owning who I am. ALL OF ME.”
Stacey Rousseau
SelfLoveArmy member
“In just 2 calls I have unlocked a confidence that surprises me. Thomas didn’t teach me how to be confident. He helped me unlock the confidence that’s already there. The confidence to connect to love, to share love and to be love.”
Louis Tochtamis
SelfLoveArmy member
“After having just one call with Thomas and opening up with him about some of the traumatic things that happened in my life I was able to let go of the tremendous weight that I’ve been carrying all along my entire life that I didn’t know how to release.”
Malik Bailey
SelfLoveArmy member
“Thomas Whigham just hosted a men's retreat in the Colorado mountains. This was amongst the single best decisions I've made in my life. His teachings aren't a group sermon or a lecture, they are so personalised that you will feel heard, loved, and cared for, for some more than even their parents.”
Divyansh Khare
SelfLoveArmy member
“I had a short call with Thomas during very difficult times. I was expecting to sleep on the street that day and I was constantly worried about my survival. He sends me a silly selfie and I just start to laugh... My mood is completely different now.”
Artyom Markelov
SelfLoveArmy member
“One of the biggest consequences of working with Tom is that my business ACTUALLY started to thrive. It's super crazy for me to realize that. Working with Tom brought me even more money than what I paid him for. He will change your life, but only if you're ready.”
Sacha Corbières
SelfLoveArmy member
“I have to say, I'm only 2 sessions in and working with Thomas is already drastically changing my life. I'm learning the beauty of the depth of pain and the freedom of finally feeling it and fully caring. It has been remarkable already and I'm only 7 days in”
Erica Mulford
SelfLoveArmy member
“My mind and heart were blown today on a call with Thomas. Same evening an ex boyfriend of mine called, first time since a very painful and messy breakup some time ago - we talked for 2 hours and it was the most loving, real and deep conversation we probably ever had. So healing.”
Roksana Brzostek
SelfLoveArmy member
“Thankfully I had the idea to message Tom. He reminded me that what I was witnessing was a "movie" in my mind but that it wasn't true. But more than what to do, thank you Thomas for being there for me when I felt I had no one and loving me when I felt totally unlovable.”
Chirag Patel
SelfLoveArmy member
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About Tom
Thomas has been coaching men to improve their lives and become the strongest version of themselves for over 8 years. His coaching is dynamic to each individual's unique situation. Love is the foundational force which guides his vision and makes his advice so powerful. He deeply cares about each person he works with — Tom aims to create a better world, one person at a time.
Tom's background makes him well suited to handle the diversity of challenges his clients face. His dad died when he was 4, which taught him how to love even the deepest, most painful trauma. Tom was an addict and underwent full recovery, and is now able to help others recover from their own addictions, speak the truth, and surrender to a higher power. Now, Tom's relationships with his guru and his wife are two of the most important things in his life.
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Focus on purpose, career advice, dating, relationships, confidence, or self love.
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- Thirty minutes, one-on-one
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Mentoring
$720720 /month
Ongoing one-on-one work. Weekly calls with check-ins.
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What's included:
- Weekly one-on-one calls
- Support and messaging in between sessions
Retreats
$450450 /retreat
Brotherhood and friendship. Weekend outings with sadhana.
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What's included:
- Three to five days on site
- Intimate settings of four to twelve participants
- Practice, growth, and love
Courses
$200200 /course
Live bi-weekly meetings for group sessions.
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What's included:
- Homework and support in between calls
Retreats are a big place for transformation. Tom facilitates a loving environment where people can feel free to be themselves. Attendees are supported, seen, and challenged to grow. Friendships are formed and deepened.
The retreats consist of spiritual talks, singing, interactive practices, and group activities. Topics can include how to improve relationships and handle conflicts, how to build presence and fully accept reality, and how to act in loving service to the divine.
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If I can help you suffer less, or serve others, I will.