Jaemin Yi

Update: My 1st Month of Godfather Coaching In my first post about Godfather Coaching, someone asked me how things had progressed after week 1. So this was my response (spoiler alert...good shit!): Man, it just keeps getting better and better. Since my first week, we keep having life-changing breakthroughs and huge perspective shifts on EVERY single call! I'm not exaggerating. For example, in a session this week, Thomas dismantled a lifelong block I've had in being able to express and receive love in romantic relationships...making me realize that I was confusing “love” for unhealthy, addictive attachment. This realization dropped like an atom bomb on me and left me sobbing, realizing my heart was never broken at all, and that I did actually love all these women I had dated but couldn't express my affection towards. And then I immediately broke this lifelong pattern by expressing that love to the woman I’m dating now. And just from that, my heart and love has blown open in ways I didn’t know were possible for me. I'm also witnessing firsthand how the power of my love is causing her to blossom and bloom in front of my eyes. And how that feedback loop bounces right back to me, saturating everything in my life with more beauty, poignancy, and richness. We’ve also formed a tight brotherhood of guys who are all going through Godfather coaching right now and it's been SO powerful. We’re constantly messaging and calling each other - sharing what we’ve been learning, supporting one another, loving one another. It feels like a kind of community I've always wanted. And is a perfect incubator for us to LIVE what we’re being taught with one another, 24/7, accelerating each other’s growth by a factor of 10. Not to mention, I feel myself hurtling down a path of stepping into my purpose in a way I’ve been waiting for all my life. It’s just unfolding for me at a breakneck pace right now. And it really doesn’t even feel like I’M doing anything. I’m just watching in awe as I see from day to day, how this work continues to profoundly impact the people in my life THROUGH me. And every day, the impact, the joy, the magic, the beauty just keeps on deepening. It’s ridiculous. I never would've used language like this a month ago...but it really does feel like life is MAGICAL now. There's some effortless flow that is just all clicking together. Serendipitous coincidences happening multiple times, every day, to the point I'm almost not surprised anymore. It's like the more I let go and let love guide me, the more things blossom and thrive. After spending decades of needing to FORCE everything to happen in my life, this is blowing my mind. And is such a fucking relief. A few other quick things I noticed: Lately, every time I interact with or catch up with a friend, our convos are on a whole nother level! They always end feeling like we've both been impacted deeply and positively. Lots of love, connection, breakthroughs and shifts...just in regular conversation. It's starting to feel like all my ordinary, day-to-day interactions have become effortlessly healing and impactful...like the calls I'm having with Thomas and our brotherhood! So all my life, I've had this uncomfortable emotional tension in my body. It feels kinda like a heavy rock in my gut & chest area. Previously, doing emotional release work helped start to loosen it up, but only like 30%. But I've noticed over the past few weeks, this inner tension's been rapidly melting away, automatically! Just from doing this SLA work. It seems that the more my love grows and I step into it (and share that with others), the more this inner tension just eases up all on it's own. Incredible. And along with that, lifelong triggers, emotional blocks, and even sexual issues are all melting too. Again, without any specific directed effort towards them. Wtf...I'm telling you, this love shit is like a cheat code to life! I'm also becoming WAY more comfortable with having difficult conversations (i.e. setting boundaries, being vulnerable, taking risks). This is incredible to me because I've spent my entire life being really good at avoiding this. But now, it's happening with ease. And the crazy thing...every single time, it brings me way CLOSER to the person I'm having conflict with. It's teaching me that from love, conflict is just an opportunity for connection. It's a loving thing to do for both of you. Anyways, there's probably a lot more I forgot to mention here. Honestly, so much happens every few days that it's hard for me to remember further past that. Even trying to remember my first week is hard - it feels like that was a year ago! So yeah, to answer the original question...to say the first month has gone well would be quite an understatement. It's been fucking magical - and this is coming from a logical, rational dude who would've NEVER used that word a month ago. I'm almost scared to see how I'll be talking in another few weeks. Guess we'll have to check back in then