Written testimonials

• “I have clinically diagnosed OCD that I've had my whole life. I had one call with Thomas, where I was pretty much at a breaking point and felt completely lost and confused. He then introduced me to the idea of surrender. But mostly, I've freed myself from this debilitating condition”Click to read moreHudson GreeningMay 2021Coaching
• “I spent 6 hours in a jail cell with a one inch padded foamy and a blanket, and the clothes off my back. And I felt totally at peace. And you know why? Because I had a 10min conversation with Thomas Whigham a few days before.”Click to read moreDaniel SanchezMay 2021Coaching
• “I have a medical issue that has been getting worse for years. I had resigned to hopelessness a long time ago. Thomas said he would do what he could to heal me. The world is less painful and I have gone from daily thoughts of suicide to having hope.”Click to read moreAhren GroeschMay 2021Coaching
• “It seems a little silly to write about the changes in my life since I've been working with Thomas... Because I have effortlessly about doubled my income and "manifested" a deeply loving relationship with a gorgeous man who just gets me”Click to read moreViveka JagadeesanMay 2022Coaching
• “I had a conversation with my mom that I’ve been putting off my whole life: sharing that I wanted to start saying “I love you” to her and was nervous that she’d be uncomfortable with it. And since then, my relationship with my mom AND my entire family has completely shifted.”Click to read moreJaemin YiMay 2021Coaching
• “Thomas recommended working very hard and being loving and everything like that. And then he said to ask for a raise. Well today they gave me a raise without me having to ask and said it’ll keep going up as I work harder and harder and harder or as long as I keep it up.”Click to read moreLuke ShemroskeMay 2022Coaching
• “Thomas Whigham cracked me open in 2 calls and i'm literally bursting with love and gratitude. We went straight to healing my deepest trauma which was a painful relationship with my father and some unresolved resentment towards him. After our call I fully forgave him.”Click to read moreDaniel JacobMay 2020Coaching
• “I'm no longer settling for anything less than what I truly want in ANY area of my life- because Thomas explains what is happening for me in such a profound way, and then holds me to my desires with actions that create massive CHANGE. I finally feel like I'm owning who I am. ALL OF ME.”Click to read moreStacey RousseauMay 2020Coaching
• “In just 2 calls I have unlocked a confidence that surprises me. Thomas didn’t teach me how to be confident. He helped me unlock the confidence that’s already there. The confidence to connect to love, to share love and to be love.”Click to read moreLouis TochtamisMay 2022Coaching
• “I had a short call with Thomas during very difficult times. I was expecting to sleep on the street that day and I was constantly worried about my survival. He sends me a silly selfie and I just start to laugh... My mood is completely different now.”Click to read moreArtyom MarkelovMay 2021Coaching
• “One of the biggest consequences of working with Tom is that my business ACTUALLY started to thrive. It's super crazy for me to realize that. Working with Tom brought me even more money than what I paid him for. He will change your life, but only if you're ready.”Click to read moreSacha CorbièresMay 2021Coaching
• “I have to say, I'm only 2 sessions in and working with Thomas is already drastically changing my life. I'm learning the beauty of the depth of pain and the freedom of finally feeling it and fully caring. It has been remarkable already and I'm only 7 days in”Click to read moreErica MulfordMay 2021Coaching
• “My mind and heart were blown today on a call with Thomas. Same evening an ex boyfriend of mine called, first time since a very painful and messy breakup some time ago - we talked for 2 hours and it was the most loving, real and deep conversation we probably ever had. So healing.”Click to read moreRoksana BrzostekMay 2021Coaching
• “Thankfully I had the idea to message Tom. He reminded me that what I was witnessing was a "movie" in my mind but that it wasn't true. But more than what to do, thank you Thomas for being there for me when I felt I had no one and loving me when I felt totally unlovable.”Click to read moreChirag PatelMay 2023Coaching
• “the way thomas guided me through this with loving energy especially how he told me to ask for help from his mentor baba i did that and honestlyy that alone just reduced my anxiety 50%”Click to read moreAnthony KaprielianMay 2023Coaching
• “I don't even know what to say or how to say it, but in the first half of our call Thomas literally helped me get through a lifetime of shame around my sexual desires and lack of experience. If our work ended today, it would still be worth 10x what I paid.”Click to read moreJacob GauptmanMay 2021Coaching
• “On my first date, I was insecure, shy, wasn’t in touch with my masculine side very much. On my second date, I was confident, relaxed, unreactive, leading the interaction, stating my desires unapologetically, showing my intention. Thomas saw this love for women in me way before I could see it.”Click to read moreDavid KeoMay 2022Coaching
• “My relationship with my family was quite strained because they did not approve of my partner. But as I leave, it's in a place of deep love and acceptance between us. An infinite thank you to Thomas who was the wellspring turning me toward love, courage, acceptance, and surrender in every situation you can imagine.”Click to read moreViveka JagadeesanMay 2022Coaching
• “For example, in a session this week, Thomas dismantled a lifelong block I've had in being able to express and receive love in romantic relationships...making me realize that I was confusing “love” for unhealthy, addictive attachment. And just from that, my heart and love has blown open in ways I didn’t know were possible for me.”Click to read moreJaemin YiMay 2021Coaching
• “After a lifetime of guarding my heart around women I finally allowed myself to open up. I felt this water-like energy in my heart that I hadn't felt since I was 19, Im 38 now. Thank you Thomas Whigham for showing me the way, there is so much more work to do on my self-love but I feel a few steps closer to freedom!!”Click to read moreDan BenoyMay 2021Coaching
• “I told Tom about my addiction issues and recent relapse. I have blocks up that are very old, that prevent me from experiencing love, or letting love in. I knew these blocks were there... but this time they were far more clear and obvious they are there, and that I need to do some work to let them go and surrender to love.”Click to read moreAndrew CroftMay 2022Coaching
• “I thought I had to heal myself before I could go out and help others. Thomas helped me call bullshit on that assumption, and thankfully he did because it wasn't until I started the practice of loving everyone and everything, especially the painful patterns I didn't want to acknowledge, that I really began to heal myself.”Click to read moreAdam BonesMay 2024Coaching
• “So, earlier this week, on a call with Thomas, I decided I would start embracing that pain so I could get back to writing because writing is one of my callings. And I did. My voice is the voice filled with love and acceptance. I was taught to hate myself, but that's not who I really am.”Click to read moreChris AlvinoMay 2021Coaching
• “It was a great call with Thomas Whigham 2 days ago. Finally, my mother and I are aligned. After all the discouragements of not supporting me in my journey for so many years, finally, it paid off.”Click to read moreBryan ValdeavillaMay 2021Coaching
• “After working with Thomas I have had some incredible things happen within my relationships and feeling more love than ever before. The most amazing thing that has happened has been an ability to let go of insecurity and immaturity around long term relationship and seeing the value I can have within one.”Click to read moreCameron Thomas BorthwickMay 2024Coaching
• “My status quo in life has been to repress and push away pain or the sides about me that I don't like. Thomas led me right to it. And in the 3 calls I've had I've noticed a world of a difference as to how I'm approaching my life and relationships.”Click to read moreDiego GranilloMay 2020Coaching
• “Thomas told me: “if you are weak. Own it. If you are needy, own it. Shower that with love. Love being enough and feeling like you are not enough. Love it all the same.” Through this work, I feel like I’m coming home. I feel truly connected and full of compassion for all myself for whatever it is I feel or go through.”Click to read moreDiego GranilloMay 2020Coaching
• “Recently I experienced a deeply painful loss. But because of Thomas and what he taught me I was ready for it. I went into this experience consciously, feeling all the pain and heart wrenching emotions. The way I handled that experience and owned it makes me feel like I can do anything now. Nothing is too big or unachievable.”Click to read moreRoksana BrzostekMay 2020Coaching
• “I went from wanting to be obliterated to laughing with tears of joy and love, after just a 10 minute phone call with Thomas. Since our calls, I've been happier, healthier and more stable even though, on paper, my trials seem worse than ever.”Click to read moreDaniel SanchezMay 2022Coaching
• “I've been doing coaching now with Thomas for over a year. He's guided me from a broke PUA robot to existential crisis and awakening to now running a successful business and having fulfilling deep connections with multiple women. And that wouldn't have been possible without him.”Click to read moreHudson GreeningMay 2022Coaching
• “He helped me flip my life around and helped me mature as a person at 100x the speed I normally would have. Gotten an amazing job at a company with tons of opportunity, after previously being unemployed and resentful about working for 5+ years. I am the most confident and optimistic I have ever been, from a very grounded and real place.”Click to read moreShawn LeviMay 2025Coaching
• “My heart has always energetically felt like a boulder. Just a lump of stone that had no capacity for warmth. I had given up all hope and truly believed I was broken. On my call with Thomas, he urged me to open my heart to God. Once I saw that my heart lit up and it started to glow.”Click to read moreAnkit KchanzMay 2021Coaching
• “Just got off a short call with Thomas. He reached out to me and said to call him. I felt welcomed and called. In that amount of time I had a breakthrough and felt more peace. I told Thomas one of my biggest fears was my dad passing away. He replied he’s going to go be friends with my dad, you don’t want him to be friends with my dad? I replied yes I do.”Click to read moreEduardo JuarezMay 2022Coaching
• “2 calls in... I've had a client now close a 10K business deal. I am feeling more full. I am feeling more confident. I am letting the tears come more naturally. And I am genuinely excited for the new week. Thank you Thomas Whigham, the journey continues”Click to read moreDavid S. GoldsteinMay 2021Coaching
• “Yesterday's call with Thomas was like the crown on the castle. As he guided me through loving this "roadblock" rather than trying to analyze it, (which in the past has been a favorite pastime of mine!) A MASSIVE sense of PURPOSE filled me. It was palpable.”Click to read moreStacey RousseauMay 2020Coaching
• “Since I've started working with Thomas Whigham a few weeks ago, he's helped me notice the stress or pressure within that was applied to almost every area of my life in some form. Working with him has helped this inner knowing become a reality. He helped open my eyes, showed me how much I really did care”Click to read moreErica MulfordMay 2021Coaching
• “Thomas is incredible. He's helped me redirect my life and focus towards love. Now having spoken with Thomas more then I'm starting to realise how much it helps me and how quickly he unfurls my silly worries or insecurities.... they really seem stupid once he questions them.”Click to read moreDaniel NetsahMay 2022Coaching
• “Just had another call with Thomas Whigham. AND STILL, I am amazed at how he can help me see the blindspots i have, reconnect with the love i am and be it fully. If you're thinking about working with him, just stop thinking and do it. A couple months down the road (or maybe less...) you will literally love yourself for having done it”Click to read moreSergio CantoreMay 2020Coaching
• “He cuts away layer after layer of everything that isn't you and leaves you alone in a room with a mirror. It's horrifying. That's what the first call with Thomas is like.”Click to read moreAhren GroeschMay 2021Coaching
• “This combined with extremely high level coaching (Thomas is a master at making reads on exactly where you are), getting on calls with him are extremely profound experiences which are honest hard to describe haha. I often mind myself coming back to what was said on those calls months and even years after we had them, they're like gifts that keep on giving.”Click to read moreAaron ZuritaMay 2024Coaching
• “The guru and devotee relationship is a beautiful thing, and I feel like I have that with Thomas. When I find myself not believing in myself, his belief in me gives me confidence. If any of you are thinking about working with him, do it, it will change your life”Click to read moreHudson GreeningMay 2024Coaching
• “In one call, I was able to let go of my attachment to time/space/structure/logic, without even thinking about it. And, that's just a tiny fraction of all the miracles that happened in this one call today. All I did was show up, and surrender to love. That's the magic that you experience when you coach with Thomas.”Click to read moreDavid KeoMay 2021Coaching
• “Thomas has an uncanny ability to know exactly what YOU specifically need. You might not even know yourself yet. His intuition is so incredibly aligned that he sees you in a way you have probably never been seen before. He will open your heart in ways you have never experienced before.”Click to read moreDavid KeoMay 2021Coaching
• “Sharing my experience in a 1:1 call with Thomas Whigham. While trying to offer back all of the masks/gifts and the thoughts/stories that I have about myself to make room for love and lightness it didn’t feel right. I wanted to hold onto them. Thomas helped me to give them up and sit with him being present like an empty vessel.”Click to read moreLouis TochtamisMay 2022Coaching
• “I've worked with several coaches in the past to help me with my purpose but never made any headway on that specific issue. I'm three calls in with Thomas and have started to really tap into my own purpose and can slowly feel the threads of my life starting to come together again.”Click to read moreChris AlvinoMay 2021Coaching
• “Thomas helped me open up more deeply in several areas. He's helped me lean into love and acceptance in my relationships with my father, girlfriend, and other loved ones. He's helped me deepen my level of intimacy and connection with women. He's helped me love pain and feel gratitude for all of life's experiences in a profound way.”Click to read moreRooz AllenMay 2020Coaching
• “It was my biggest regret that I didn't forgive him before he passed away in Oct. 22, 2014. In June 26, 2021, I achieved total forgiveness and feel the love of the father. It's my first time to say "I am happy." to my family after 3 years and 5 months in jumping into unknown. Thank you so much Thomas. You are amazing and a lifesaver!”Click to read moreBryan ValdeavillaMay 2022Coaching
• “From the sometimes overflowing love I feel towards myself and others. It almost feels like it hurts. Thank you Thomas”Click to read moreAlexander KhandjievMay 2022Coaching
• “I’ve had about 5 calls so far with Thomas and it’s been a crazy ride of love, sadness, joy and hilarity! I struggle with love because I don’t love myself but for the first time in my adult life I am feeling something going on in my heart. It feels warm, safe and childlike and it makes me want to cry.”Click to read moreDan BenoyMay 2021Coaching
• “On every coaching session with Thomas Whigham I feel his love. This helped me open up my heart that was closed my whole life. Getting in touch with love may sound like some woo-woo bullshit but it's the most powerful force in the world and makes you a better coach, leader, lover, friend and human.”Click to read moreDaniel JacobMay 2021Coaching
• “I had a call the other day with Thomas. He helped me get a different, more loving and more functional perspective over some personal problems I've been dealing with in the past few months. Now, this was only one call, but the effect was clear, immediate and heartfelt.”Click to read moreChristos GialiasMay 2020Coaching
• “I just want to thank Thomas for coming into my life and providing me with an option that fit my budget to be able to self reflect and dig deep as to what is holding me back in my life from taking the next step to fulfill my potential.”Click to read moreDavid S. GoldsteinMay 2020Coaching
• “A practical change I've noticed in my mind through working with Thomas Whigham actually happens in the shower each morning. Turning what was once something I dreaded to do, talk about, even frame something a certain way, and enabling yourself to Love It and see the True Light and beauty in the uncomfortable like I've never felt before.”Click to read moreDavid S. GoldsteinMay 2021Coaching
• “Since Thomas Whigham found me (yes, the master appears when the student is ready), he hasn't left my side. It gives me enormous comfort to know that Thomas is always there to guide me and point me in the right direction when I'm confused or lost.”Click to read moreDavid KeoNovember 2025Coaching
• “On our last call, Thomas helped me to integrate a recent painful experience. It allowed me to hold my experience with greater clarity and compassion for myself and others. It allowed me to see the love beyond the pain and embrace them both as valid and valuable.”Click to read moreRoksana BrzostekMay 2020Coaching
• “But I had a call with Thomas yesterday, and he felt into my energy. Even though the call was very short, it was exactly what I needed to hear in the moment. Just hearing that maybe this will never fully stabilize was very reassuring and created a lot of acceptance.”Click to read morePatrik KarlssonMay 2024Coaching
• “I went through a terrible breakup last year that completely destroyed me. When I came across gratitude and compassion was the first moment I met Thomas Whigham. My love for the world hasn't been that strong for a long time. I feel light and love circulating in my veins. Love is inside me. Love is me.”Click to read moreSacha CorbièresMay 2020Coaching
• “It’s also a story of how my work with Thomas changed me and opened me to my true abilities of love as this unbelievable story happened right about when we started working together. Then immediately the voices of Maharaji and Thomas in me came about saying “Perhaps you don’t say, you just let love speak and stay conscious”.”Click to read moreYuval MannMay 2021Coaching
• “But after i talked with Thomas , i now realize that if every activities / responsibilities of life is perceived from love then all these responsibilities transforms into pleasurable activities. Love gives you purpose and i was lacking this purpose for a very long time .”Click to read moreUtpal JhaMay 2022Coaching
• “Something I've noticed since I started working with Thomas was the way I was perceiving suffering, the way I was relating to it. The noise is no longer taken to be who I am, it no longer acts as the primary reference point to define my well-being.”Click to read moreErica MulfordMay 2021Coaching
• “In the last few calls with Thomas I'd been feeling some resistance because he was always telling me to be confident and be assertive! Today he helped me understand that he's not saying that, that how I'm already being is perfect, already confident and already assertive and there doesn't need to be more of anything.”Click to read moreDaniel NetsahMay 2022Coaching
• “Thanks to his agreement with Thomas Whigham on giving some of each others students a coaching call I had the opportunity to talk with this master of love. His words about love and his loving presence during the call made me feel super light.”Click to read moreJosef HorákMay 2021Coaching
• “Day 1 working with Thomas Whigham and Radha Baum on Bhakti. But, there IS method to the madness, as I'm quickly discovering. You MUST let Tom & Radha work with you if you want to go deeper into love.”Click to read morePierre de SousaMay 2021Coaching
• “On todays call with Thomas, btw i fucking love this man. Had a water turned to wine moment. Something ive been ruminating for a long time just got a cracked, and seen in another way. But its first today that i realized that that too is love.”Click to read moreTom LeMay 2022Coaching
• “I recently had a call with Thomas, where we immedietly plunged into a meditation, to stay between the thoughts and in the heart. A meditation that soothed my at that time anxious mind. However, when i practiced this new meditation the other day, i notice that my heart was almost on fire, especially when my mind was still.”Click to read moreTom LeCoaching
• “I had a profoundly loving call with Thomas Whigham yesterday. Surprisingly simple, but that's what made it powerful. Today I coached from the heart for the first time in weeks. Not heart-nuggets. FULL ON from the heart, and it was amazing. Thanks baba!”Click to read moreMartin MezeiCoaching
• “My only regret in my coaching work with Thomas: I didn't record our first two calls, that were already perspective shifting, and I'd like to listen back to them. There is so much more depth to them than what you'd get on the first call.”Click to read moreMartin MezeiCoaching
• “During a coaching call with Thomas, he shared an interesting insight that deeply resonated with me while speaking to the fear of the unknown I've been experiencing with the pursuit of my purpose. "Yes there may be uncertainty in what actions you must take next, there may be fear of the unknown, but there will be certainty in the knowing of your purpose in its place."”Click to read moreRooz AllenMay 2020Coaching
• “On a call with Thomas Whigham, and he shared something that moved me deeply. When we can embrace and accept that we will both hurt women, and get hurt by women, that this pain is actually good for her and us, we allow ourselves to love more fully, deeply, and passionately in our relationships by no longer holding ourselves back.”Click to read moreRooz AllenMay 2020Coaching
• “Literally, on the call with Thomas Whigham crying and saying "I don't want to be dumb" All of my "brilliance" and "being smart" has been preventing me from just having a simple loving connection. But gratitude produces a loving connection. It allows the other person to receive my love and give love back.”Click to read moreJustin TangMay 2021Coaching
• “Call with Thomas Whigham - it was a quick, but very beneficial experience. Simplicity and sheer power of Tom’s teachings was the impression that I was left with. During call I entered very interesting state and made a step in direction of Love space.”Click to read moreKuba LizakMay 2021Coaching
• “Being is vibrant and exctatic - that's a paraphrase of what Thomas Whigham told me during our call. It stayed with me and I am contemplating on it. I did also experience a pure extasy and these weren't just mind concepts.”Click to read moreKuba LizakMay 2023Coaching
• “I had a life changing call with Thomas Whigham today! Thank you for helping me to turn on the light switch”Click to read moreLouis TochtamisMay 2022Coaching
• “Shoutout to Thomas Whigham for the call we had yesterday. We don't need to like pain, that's masochism. But we shouldn't either avoid it. Accepting it is the way. Appreciating pain and being ready to experience it is the safest mindset there is, as I found out for myself yesterday.”Click to read moreSergio CantoreMay 2020Coaching
• “I want to share a phone call I had with Thomas Whigham earlier on. I informed him of the toxic thoughts I am dealing when it comes to inferiority. His message about self-love was so powerful. Having your shit together is to do with loving yourself. Loving yourself is an undisputed truth; in the same way as gravity.”Click to read moreSimon FletcherMay 2019Coaching
• “Just by interacting with him, I've learned how to express my needs in a clearer way without stepping on the toes of those around me. Final thing I'll say on Thomas Whigham and his coaching so far - he makes things simple and clear, which I believe is the best mark of a great coach.”Click to read moreKwesi KilsonMay 2019Coaching
• “I can Love or I can suffer. Thank you Thomas. You actually got into me...because of course you did.”Click to read moreChirag PatelMay 2022Coaching
• “On a call with Thomas and he said something that cut my nice guy’s head off. “You getting what you want in life is her getting what she wants, or else you’re not compatible”.”Click to read moreDaniel JacobCoaching
• “Insight from my call with Thomas : Fill someone with liquid gold, Pour love through their skull until it overflows, And they'll start moving spontaneously, Driven for action that's specific to them. That's purpose”Click to read moreLaurent Van EesbeeckMay 2020Coaching
• “Here are 5 takeaways from a recent call with Thomas: Accept whatever you're scared of and own it. It's very hard to love yourself if you can't love the part of you that's scared. Gratitude and pain are related. You get to be grateful for your pain because gratitude that's conditional on good things happening isn't really gratitude.”Click to read moreJonathan NiCoaching
• “Realisations from working with Thomas: As a woman I deeply desire powerful masculine leadership. Everyone, but especially women: I would highly encourage you to work with Thomas, if you aren't already. The power of transformation and opportunity for liberation he offers is second to none.”Click to read moreRoksana BrzostekMay 2020Coaching
• “I get it! I get why the Dom / Sub relationship is so beautifully unique. Why it’s good for the soul. Good for mankind. (A snippet of my call with Thomas today!)”Click to read moreArvind ToorMay 2021Coaching