David Keo

I went on a date with a lovely girl about a year ago (right after I met Thomas). And then I went on a second date with the same girl one week ago. This gave me a unique view into how having Thomas in my life taking care of me has changed me & my relationship to women over the course of one year. On our first date, we vibed well, drank some wine and had a lovely & lively conversation for about two hours. After the date, she took a taxi and went home. We wanted to meet again, but while planning, the contact fizzled out and that was it. On our second date, a year later, we met again at a bar, had some wine, had a lovely & lively conversation for about an hour. After that hour, I invited her to my place, and we hooked up. I got a message from her the next day, thanking me that I have helped her overcome her anxiety of opening up to men. And that she wanted to see me again because after our second date, she wanted more. On my first date, I was insecure, shy, wasn’t in touch with my masculine side very much. I wanted to be with her because I thought she was cute and sexy. But I had no clue about how attraction works and what to do, how to be. And although Thomas kept saying to me “You’re good for women”, deep down I didn’t believe him, and so I felt like a total failure with women. On my second date, I was confident, relaxed, unreactive, leading the interaction, stating my desires unapologetically, showing my intention. I felt like a grounded man, a man who is indeed good for women. So what changed? A lot obviously, but it all boils down to one thing: my love for women. I learned to love the feminine, welcome and embrace it in all its shapes and forms and everything that comes with it: the beauty, the chaos, the unpredictability, the emotions, the messiness, the sexiness, the juiciness. I love all of it, and I wouldn’t want one thing about women to change. Thomas saw this love for women in me way before I could see it. That’s why he kept telling me how good I am for women before I could believe it myself. And he kept bringing me into this love, taught me how to live from it, how to act from it, how to be it. What a ride it’s been, and I still feel like we’re only just getting started. Life is good. And with Thomas in it, it’s even better. I love you all, thank you for reading