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Bryan Valdeavilla
Coaching testimonials →May 2022
What a great year that I had when I got connected with Thomas Whigham.
I got connected with the 2 masculinity coaches in Oct. 2020 and 1 masculinity coach in Jan. 2021.
They were all mentored by Thomas.
In Jan. 18, 2021, I encountered a deep healing experience and finally shouted and said to myself "I am a man."
Finally, I recovered from identity crisis.
I saw the opportunity when Sacha Corbières posted something in his profile about Thomas together with his link to Facebook group.
That's where it started.
And then I messaged Thomas introducing myself, had a deep conversation, and got connected with me.
In the end of Jan. 2021, he gave me a surprise call for 5 minutes.
After that call, I have a deep understanding about self-love, forgiveness, and acceptance.
My wounds were fresh as only few days after recovering from identity crisis.
70% about not having a good father was answered and trusted the process for the remaining 30%.
I didn't use Google or YouTube in searching for the answers.
I let it flow and waited patiently for the right answers.
In 2Q of 2021, I encountered an alarming experience in my business.
It was a great opportunity that Thomas had 3 FREE 3 group calls happened in the first 2 weekends of May 2021.
I showed up to all of those events.
After those sessions, I stayed calm despite the alarming experience that I encountered.
In June 25, 2021, Thomas shared me the audio message singing "ram, ram, ram".
That song reminded me of the memories of my pain with my relationship to my father and my past hurts and trauma during my childhood times.
It was my biggest regret that I didn't forgive him before he passed away in Oct. 22, 2014.
In June 26, 2021, I achieved total forgiveness and feel the love of the father. (I achieved this breakthrough in the 3rd Year of this group. The name of the group was never changed since then.)
Finally, I achieved 100% satisfaction.
In July 2, 2021, I encountered the trial where the one that I was asking for was not given.
In July 5, 2021, I got in the new opportunity and it was a great blessing to me.
I worked on it and I achieved the breakthrough to my client in the last week of 3Q of 2021.
I recovered from alarming experience in 2Q of 2021 and achieved happiness in 3Q of 2021.
It's my first time to say "I am happy." to my family after 3 years and 5 months in jumping into unknown.
I always say to Thomas "I love your vibe." because I feel so much overwhelming gratitude and love.
What a great 1 year plan in my life that I connected with the 4 great people who helped me mold as a better man.
They helped me saved more years of my life.
I achieved the possible impossible despite the challenges.
Thank you so much Thomas. You are amazing and a lifesaver!