Lazaros Won

Conscious Dating - The Hidden Maze of Spiritual Transcendence There is a very profound path inside your dating life. That path has always been there, but it’s presence is subtle and easily neglected. Have you ever perceived your dating experiences as some of the most educating life lessons? Have you ever noticed that through those, not always pleasant feelings, you end up realizing meaningful truths about yourself? What if driven by the desire for intimacy and connection you can somehow find the energy to transform? For the common opinion, dating experiences admittedly teach a great deal. Thus dating and self-awareness are inseparable. Still, that connection gets lost or neglected from most. Eyes covered by the cloak of fear for pain, you can lose sight of that obvious yet subtle compass star. You can become desensitized to your pure desire and sense of attraction. A feeling behind every thought or mind formation. A force, coming right from the center of your being. An abstract sense of gravitation. What if you don’t try to define with logic. What if you just trust it. YOU SEE, THE MIND IS ELUSIVE.. The ego as an idea of self separation leads to a spiral of self-discovering layers. The path is not a straight line. It’s more like a sea, shaking brutally by storm. But you are not a big ship, you are just a boat. Small, two sits all and all, totally unequipped, almost certain that you’ll break. Trusting that shining star inside is your only hope to navigate. When someone decides to follow the direction, he finds himself inside a maze of seemingly infinite size. An emotional tunnel so deep it seems to extend back to the start of time. Sliding down the rabbit hole, you come across many layers of awakening. Starting from an abstract fear of rejection or need for attention. Becoming deeply aware of attachment and resentment to those who made you. Stepping out of your sense of self, perceiving someone else as part of you. Solving the paradox of self-sacrifice. EGO BREAKS IN MANY WAYS.. Finding love for pain, longing losing it all just for a moment. Dealing with the fear of death and wonder of existence. Infinity is close. Being disoriented and confused you have no idea what to expect. But there is a silent promise of a high price on the other side. That promise is strangely more than enough to keep going. As the fuel of exploration, you discover the energy coming directly from the source of creation. Your attraction, your sex drive, your sacral chakra, the root of your existence as a social being. No matter what you call it, it’s there. Humble force, yet powerful. Even though enlightening, walking through this maze is overwhelming, full of self-doubt and temptation to give up. When you find yourself deep enough, you realize quitting is not an option anymore. You have to get to the other side. Paradoxically this stage is usually the last line of defense, before the big breakthrough. Unfortunately, it’s also the stage that most give up. Many fall into depression and come across various forms of self-destruction. BUT IF YOU GIVE UP HERE, THERE IS NOWHERE TO GO. Giving up here, you end up hanging in a thin thread between life and death. From that place of being, life feels empty, yet dying feels pointless. That place becomes a limbo one can stay for very long… You might feel like you need help. Someone or something to save you. But no one can. It all boils down to your own conscious decision to step out. Your own conscious decision to trust. In a single moment the trap breaks. Doing that, you can finally see the profanity of that painfully confusing experience. You can realize that pain is just a sign, pointing out a wound. You can see that fear of the unknown is an invitation for expansion. You can see that confusion is a step up to greater certainty. Soon Grief comes to heal you and wash away the emotional blood of self-inflicted wounds. Crying for the loss of time and death of your old self makes rebirthing possible. It’s a deeply sad but cleansing experience. But a sense of deep gratefulness comes along. Soon you wake up with a newfound faith and purpose. You welcome yourself on the other side. Here Vision is unfolding reality. It feels familiar like an old neighborhood. You wonder. How could you forget? Everything was love already. What a shame, you couldn’t see all along. Despite that, regret is absent. There is no grief for lost time anymore. Looking back feels unnecessary. Because now, that single moment of experience feels wholeheartedly more than enough. One last thing has changed… It feels strange, hard to put in words. It wouldn’t make sense any other time. But now it’s so obviously true. Suddenly you realize... You are not just you anymore. In the most literal way. You are everyone.