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Why we thinking so much....

Why we thinking so much.... don't be thinking so much....

words that many clients have heard me sing to them on our calls...

“What Thomas focuses on isn't ‘self development’, it's self acceptance, and self love. After this call with him, the second conversation we've had, I was able to realize that a lot of the so called fears that I have weren't because I'm not ‘self developed enough’”

The reason he was able to come to this realization was because he understood that loving something and why that love is pure, does NOT mean that you have to understand the love in itself.

(These words were written in this group by a high level communication coach who I’ve been mentoring for an extended period of time…)

If you want to be completely confident in your relationships, decisions, and daily potential, you have to fully realize this idea.

We don’t need understanding to love and accept.

People try to think their way to love. They need to learn to let go of the need for understanding.

You don’t need to understand to love or to accept love.

From that space we can free ourselves from our imprisoned thinking.

Feeling that you need to understand something completely in order to love it is selling yourself so short.

Something that I told that young man is this:

“The world makes you a prison. People build you a prison and tell you to go in it. They tell you to go in it and stay in it. To go in where it’s safe. But we never have to live in that prison.”

A vivid pink and orange sunset over layered mountain ridges, with pine trees and a meadow in front.

Being bound by a “logical” understanding of the love that you have is the same as walking into a prison and closing the door on yourself.

(The work I do on the extended mentorship teaches every single client to unlock the door of this prison)

If you’re in this prison, your relationships will struggle to be healthy, your thoughts will be scattered and unclear, and “what's the point of trying” becomes a way of living.

Outside the cell you have fulfilling meaningful relationships, excitement and clarity about your future, and aggressive pursuit of your true passions and potential.

A year later after our work together, the young man who wrote that message about his experience with me is a few months away from marrying an amazing girl that he’s completely in love with and is growing his personal coaching business with a purpose that he never realized before.

This is the work that really matters.

Stop trying to understand your reasons for loving. Accept love unconditionally without limit.

Then you will evolve.

In a few days I’ll be giving you a very powerful anchoring exercise that will clear up any confusion or resistance to your purpose.

P.S.

The best time to schedule a strategy call with me is now. In the next several weeks I expect to be extremely busy giving time and attention to those who invested in the Mastermind and personal mentorships.

Reach out, let's plan a strategy call, and see what steps you need to take right now to find your purpose in relationships, wealth, and potential.

— Thomas Whigham · originally posted on Facebook

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