If she is the right woman she will make you a better man.

If she is the right woman she will make you a better man. If you are the right man you will make her a better woman. I’m old now (almost 35) so I’ve lived several significant life stages. You’d think the metamorphosis and the big leaps have all been made (especially given my intense amount of life experience to this point). But I actually think relationships, the good ones, keep that same powerful quality. I always say we grow together until we grow apart, until we grow together again (or it ends). What I meant by this is that we can be perfect for one another for a time, a minute a week a year, and in that perfection is more meaning than years of mediocre relationships. My longest relationship was 6 years. Even after I discovered how many partners I could have, I never prioritized this over relationships. In fact I started having accelerated powerful relationships with people very quickly. Like faster than you can imagine now. Because I started seeing them for real, where they were at emotionally. I’ll post more on relationships soon.

Also shout out to Pierre de Sousa, someone I look forward to collaborating with for the next oh 50 years or so.