Feeling like you need to know and understand everything is stopping you from…

Feeling like you need to know and understand everything is stopping you from experiencing it.

Once you learn to see humanity in others and share your own, once you have self acceptance and self belief, once you have an attraction to a woman and are comfortable showing it... the doors will open.

You want to explore bdsm or tantra do it. Find someone and communicate that interest. Don’t put the pressure on yourself to be an expert on all things. Be an expert on your things, and seek to learn more. Women who are on your team will support your learning (and teach you, and learn with you).