Don’t put women on a pedestal put them on your team.

Don’t put women on a pedestal put them on your team.

Help them feel secure in YOUR relationship, as it really is, together. When they think they need monogamy to feel secure, you didn’t handle your responsibility and make them feel secure. You didn’t help them accept their insecurity and love it. You didn’t do your job as a dominant man in her life and you don’t deserve her love and devotion without the monogamy. You failed her and yourself.

Note: 2 person teams, partnerships, are great too. But notice this also comes from the security you both feel and the benefit of this arrangement for your purpose and hers.