1500 People!

1500 People! This group has grown a ton this year. Thank you to everyone who has supported the work!

I saw pain and trauma first hand my entire life. My dad got AIDS from a blood transfusion before I was born. Got kicked out of several schools for fighting and being disruptive. Strict step father clashes as a willful wild youth.

Graduated 2 years early rank 1 in my class, then went to college at 16. Dropped out after 1 semester, traveled, hitchiked. Ending up moving damn near every six months for a decade after that. I was dirt poor; I lived with my god mom in the projects for a few months during this time.

Took me 9 years to complete undergrad, and the final year I did 66 credits in 12 months to get my degree and attend law school.

In law school I helped disabled clients, almost entirely abused women, qualify for disability.

Then as an attorney, it was working with broken families, parents of kids who had been abused, abandoned, or neglected. This helps me coach clients with kids, but also those who come from broken homes and abusive backgrounds.

Later I handled divorces. This helps me coach broken hearts and lonely grieving folks who want healthy relationships with high quality partners.

At every level, deep human suffering, and more insight into how to help you with it.

This doesn't even include representing child molesters, which I did my first year as an attorney.

I was also an addict and had bouts with substance abuse.

Most of the women I dated had previously been sexually assaulted.

At every level I encountered a desire in myself to help others heal, to genuinely help them. The law didn't afford me the opportunity to help others like I wanted.

At every level, personally and professionally, I became familiar with pain, suffering, and the struggle-- and what needed to be done about it.

I started noticing I was giving more mindset advice about how to handle a situation than just legal advice-- that I felt happiest when I could help my clients navigate the difficulties of their circumstances by inspiring them.

Eventually I moved on into a lucrative practice of insurance defense, but by this point I was just not happy with the profession.

I needed to change.

I'd been doing a lot of paid coaching for men on dating women and attracting women, and I started pursuing this more seriously.

I realized this was the area I wanted to pursue, but just focusing on sex and sexuality and masculinity wasn't enough.

I wanted to teach people to heal their wounds like I healed my own, to grow like I'd grown, without having to suffer like I'd suffered (their suffering was plenty!).

I started waking up each day filled with joy for the calls I was about to do. It was the happiest, most peaceful, most joyful time of my life.

And I'm only getting started.

Since this disease with Corona kicked my ass I can't do 10-12 calls a day like I was. I miss it. But that was too much. But I still wake up each day grateful as fuck this is my life.

And I want to help you feel the same way.

You want to have the woman or man of your dreams. I'll help you. And put you in contact with clients I've already helped have this ( talk to Madushan Dissanayake and Stacey Rousseau about improving healthy relationships).

You want a raise? I've helped clients get raises (Talk to Laurent Van Eesbeeck about what love told him about getting a raise)

You want to change your career or pursue a new passion at a world class level (Talk to Martin Mezei about what true love and acceptance look like and the energy in the hands and heart)

You want to just be flat out better at the work you're already doing? Ask Lazaros Kalfas and Daniel Jacob and Rooz Allen about how they took their coaching to new levels from working with me.

The point is this: right now you've got some dark painful shit in your life. You also have the solution inside you-- and the answers to your problems.

That's the work I do now: helping people heal from divorce, from fucked up childhood situations, and just being the best they fucking can be.

Sign up for a program, get enrolled in the Mastermind, and let's get to work.